Meet the Toberts | Episode 1

Circle of Trust

Welcome to “Meet the Toberts,” a podcast that offers a peek into the lives of a pre-senior medical couple, Sue and Darren Tobert. Join this Gen X duo as they discuss the ups and downs of their medical careers, financial independence, and the importance of maintaining a work-life balance. In this episode, the Toberts share their journey through medicine, their early retirement plans, and the significance of mental health and well-being. With authentic storytelling and practical advice, they aim to provide valuable insights for those in the medical field and beyond.

Published on
October 15, 2024

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Chapters

  • Introduction to the Toberts – 00:00:00
    The hosts, Sue and Daren Tobert, introduce themselves and discuss their backgrounds as a senior medical couple.
  • Early Retirement Plans – 00:02:30
    Sue and Daren talk about their goal to retire early and reflect on how they balanced work and life.
  • The Importance of Mentorship in Medicine – 00:05:00
    The hosts discuss how observing mentors in medicine shaped their approach to work-life balance.
  • Burnout in Medicine – 00:10:00
    The couple shares their experiences with burnout, both in personal and professional life, and how they dealt with it.
  • The Podcast’s Mission – 00:15:00
    Daren explains the purpose of the podcast and introduces the concept of a “circle of trust” as it relates to mental health in medicine.
  • The Impact of Low Trust in Healthcare – 00:18:30
    Discussion on the lack of trust in the medical system, both from physicians and patients, and how it affects healthcare.
  • The Toberts’ Immigration Story – 00:20:00
    The hosts share their journey from Canada to the United States to pursue medical careers and how immigration affected their lives.
  • Dealing with Burnout and Reorganizing Priorities – 00:28:00
    They reflect on how they moved to Wisconsin to restructure their priorities and prevent burnout.
  • Mental Health Awareness and Resources – 00:30:00
    Discussion on mental health in the medical field, including the stigma around seeking help and available resources for physicians.
  • Final Thoughts: Building Your Circle of Trust – 00:35:00
    The episode concludes with advice on fostering personal mental health and the importance of having a supportive circle of trust.